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Contrary to some ideological & gender biased individuals projective misinterpretations, I, along with most men, am a genuinely loving, kind, honest, integral soul who respects women & men and true equality equally.
And any openness I have or am assumed to have with any woman intimately, is only openness ( not expectation or demand for anything other than direct mutually respectful honesty with me ) based in their seeming openness and trust they will own any negative assumptions & projections, communicate directly openly honestly with me about their subjective personal boundaries & preferences before expecting me to know and thereby respect them, which I always have and do then, and appreciate and relate with me as an equal soul.
And respect for my boundaries, of which such open direct, mutually respectful honest communicating with me is one of my boundaries, which I always tell people and even have signs up in my space affirming.
And I prefer to keep direct sexual affection to unpaid contexts when both are genuinely appreciatively open to nourishing a lasting , honest friendship at least.
Since I've experienced so many women expressing openness and desire for ways of relating and receiving some women view as undesired, offensive, etc..
But, or and, I equally respect and love myself. And I value honesty as love manifesting, above everything. Above popularity, sex, ideological biases, money...
So if someone abusively negatively projects onto & passive aggressively or directly misleadingly lies to and / or about me, to try to manipulatively falsely confirm their biased negative projections about me based in their own female idolizing male - vilifying biases, personal prejudices, desire to hide their own behaviors, etc., I will respond with healthy boundary, honesty affirming assertiveness.
I do not tolerate passive aggressive and direct lying and liars. And I will hold them accountable if pushed. For lying is deeply abusive, narcissistic, manipulative behavior.
This does not make me a scary, abusive, misogynistic, or an evil person.
It is simply a healthy expression of my respecting my & mens right to equal respect for my & mens equal humanity, honesty & integrity in a society that often popularizes & normalizes passive aggressively and directly dishonest, manipulative divisive female idolizing , male vilifying intepretations, one sided selective ( and thus dishonest ) focus and lies.
When I am honestly viewed & treated with genuine open honesty, equality of appreciation, belief, respect, kindness and support to souls in female bodies and generally, one discovers the truth that I, as are many additional men, am truly loving, respectful, integral and honest.