Fully open honest sharing about ourselves, our desires, feelings, boundaries, preferences with each other in every present now is required for being understood & respected.
For understanding & respecting.
And for being an integral, sane, trustworthy & authentic human being.
Relating with each other with equal honesty, respect and care as we wish to receive.
This is often not the norm, or popular way of being & relating.
At least not by social & ideological attitudes and individuals who choose to negatively project onto some people & situations and act passive aggressively & directly misleading, dishonest. Then abusively act offended and blame those they treat in such confusing ways for rightly expressing boundary affirming healthy anger - for speaking up honestly about the negative, misleading effects of such behaviors.
Which needs to change.
Look honestly in the mirror.