When we choose to view & relate to people, offers & experiences through lenses of suspicion, mistrust, fear and inhibiting dogmas, we color - influence what we believe we perceive & experience of them accordingly. Seeing what we think is negative, suspicious and "bad" even when not truly there. Even altering the flow of relational experiences to seemingly "confirm" ones negative expectations through suspiciously minded & misleading ways of relating & communicating.
When we choose to view & relate to people & experiences through lenses of trust, appreciation, honest communication and respect for the equal validity of diverse experiences and ways of being, learning and relating, we can perceive and respect the love, kindness, growth, harmony, trustworthiness and beauty in people and experiences that is present, and available to be developed. And which is co-created with such positive beliefs, appreciation & perceptions.