" People who make accusations about other peoples supposed hidden, corrupt motives, are actually saying very little about the people they are accusing. But saying a great deal about themselves. Because what those people are saying, those people who spew those kind of accusations, is I cannot believe that anybody would do anything out of a sense of duty, or principle ( or empathy, kindness and love ). They must be doing it for some corrupt reason.
And the reason they think that, is because they themselves never do anything out of conviction, or principle ( or empathy, kindness and loving generosity in related ways ). And so they erroneously believe that everybody is plagued by the same pathology of soullessness that plagues them. "
The related quote below is from an article "There Are Better Things To Talk About Than Other People", located at http://www.becomingminimalist.com/there-are-better-things-to-talk-about-than-others/
" “How much time he gains who does not look to see what his neighbor says or does or thinks, but only at what he does himself.” ―Marcus Aurelius
" An old proverb tells the story of a person who repeated a rumor about a neighbor. Soon, the whole community had heard the rumor. Later, the person who spread the gossip learned that the rumor was untrue.
They then recognized their abusive error and were very sorry, and went to an elder in the community who had a reputation for great wisdom to seek advice. The elder told them, “Go to your home and take a feather pillow outside. Rip it open and scatter the feathers, then return to me tomorrow.” The person did as the elder had instructed.
The following day, they visited the elder. The elder said, “Go collect the feathers you scattered yesterday and bring them back to me.” The person went home and searched for the feathers, but the wind had carried them all away. Returning to the elder, they admitted, “I could find none of the feathers I scattered yesterday.” “You see,” said the elder, “it‘s easy to scatter the feathers but impossible to get them back.” So it is with gossip; it doesn’t take much to spread hurtful words, but once you do, you can never completely undo the damage. "
" You may not be aware of it, but this is a fact of biology, of bio-energy, that man and woman are opposite forces. Negative-positive, yin-yang, or whatsoever you call them, they are challenging to each other. And when they both meet in a deep relaxation, they revitalize each other. They both revitalize each other, they both become generators, they both feel livelier, they both become radiant with new energy, and nothing is lost. Just by meeting with the opposite pole energy is renewed. " Osho.
This naturally harmonizing, nurturing quality is true not only in directly sexual relating. But also through nonsexual, sensual energetic emotional nurturing of massages, cuddling, hugging and simple proximity when given for & shared with beings of complimentary embodying gender who are mutually lovingly appreciative of each other & this naturally harmonious aspect of our embodying beings.
Which is why in my private massage practice I have gradually refocused from giving to all people regardless of the presence or lack of compatible harmony of their personal attitudes & appreciation, embodying gender and care of their physicalizing consciousness.
To now specializing by contributing to mutually compatible beings embodying loving harmony, relaxation, vitality & wellness through massage in ways which feel I am able to be most authentically aligned & respectfully supportive of.
By specializing in giving for female embodying souls who are maintaining their embodying energy healthfully, communicate mutually respectfully honestly & directly with me about their personal preferences & perspectives so I can understand & respect them.
And who share appreciation of this natural harmonizing quality of energies even through energetically - sensually nurturing, nonsexual massage.
As these combined elements allow me to provide a more harmoniously nurturing experience for mutually compatible clientele. While also being healthier for my body & energy giving, allowing me to give supportive massages longer, with less strain on my body, and with more inspiration & energy.
When feeling sadness, it is healing to Love.
When feeling doubt, it is clarifying to Love.
When feeling anger, it is kind to Love.
When feeling worry, it is soothing to Love.
When feeling unloved, it is nourishing to Love.
When feeling unloving, it is revealing to Love.
When feeling loving, it is honest to Love.
When feeling Loved, it is resonant to Love.
To Love oneself.
And to Love each other in whatever ways are mutually naturally authentic, appreciative and nurturing.
To Love is to fully Live. And to grow in being, giving & receiving Love.